Saturday, March 6, 2010

BETTER HALF

What’s in the name “better half” and “significant others” mean? Why do you call your partner my better half? Does it mean your spouse or your partner is better than you? Shouldn’t it be better if both of you were just as significant to each other? Do you really have to supplement each other’s shortcomings instead of complementing each other’s strengths and weaknesses?

FRIENDS

There are different kinds of people who affect our lives in so many different ways. We have our family, which is a reflection of who we are, and there are colleagues, acquaintances and partners who make our lives quite a bit interesting. But there is a certain person or a group of people who can influence us in the most number of ways, and we call them “Friends”.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Success can be achieved.....

Michael Jordan, Oprah Winfrey, Bill Gates, Donald Trump, Warren Buffet etc.

These are just some of the few who are so successful in their chosen careers. But what do these people have in common? You might say they have money, fame, luxuries in life, but how do they end up with all of these. Were they just lucky that everything just fell into their laps or there’s something else? Well I’m sure all of them worked so hard to achieve what they had accomplished so far.

Most of us, if not all of us, have a certain figure which we idolizes and try to emulate what they have done and achieved in life. But each individual have different capabilities and qualities, so one can’t be Michael Jordan if he can’t play basketball, or she can’t be Oprah if she don’t have the passion to help people. But you can have the qualities and the discipline that they possess in order to achieve what you wanted to achieve in life. Most of us fail in life because we don’t know our weaknesses and our strengths. Some of us even don’t have the patience and the perseverance to continue when we fail. And I admit I am one of those many who whines when I don’t get what I want. So what are the qualities that one person must have in order to be successful like the people I mentioned above. Here are some which I think is very important:

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

75 things women should know about men

i think this list should apply to men also and not just for women....enjoy and see if your problems with your partners are on the list....

75 Things Girls should know about Men...

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant tobe.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith
make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Love or stupidity?

The reason I created this blog is to free my mind from everyday stress. Sometimes after work and i go back to my hostel, i don't know what to do after i take my dinner, watch tv or surf the net. You see, I'm sort of an expat but in a non-literal way. Hard to explain so i won't get into the details.

I have 2 kids back home whom i loved the most and was separated from my wife for more than 2 years now. I had a previous relationship to a woman whom i truly loved but it doesn't work out either. And this is the topic which i wanted to share with you.

What is the thin line between unconditional love and stupidity?